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Managing stress with breathing

Slow breathing is a simple, always-available tool to calm the body and mind. How and when to use it.

Your breath is a remote control for your nervous system. Slow, steady breathing can calm stress in minutes, anywhere.

A simple technique

  • Breathe in gently through the nose for a count of four.
  • Let the out-breath be a little longer than the in-breath.
  • Repeat for a few calm minutes.

When to use it

  • Before a stressful task or appointment.
  • During moments of frustration.
  • As part of a wind-down before sleep.

Make it a habit

  • Practise daily when calm, so it’s ready when needed.
  • Pair it with a routine cue.
  • Try a guided breathing game to start.

Keep it comfortable

  • Never force the breath.
  • Stop if you feel lightheaded.
  • Gentle and slow is the goal.

How this site helps

You don’t have to do everything at once. Pick one small idea from above and try it this week.

  • Turn a goal into a daily habit with Practice.
  • See the evidence behind these ideas in Research.
  • Practise the underlying skill with a calm game.

Remember: this is general education, not medical advice. Your clinician knows your situation best.